Bear in mind that no one has to agree with you. No one has to understand what you are saying. No one has to know what you mean. No one has to understand you. No one has to adore you, appreciate you, value you. No one has to do anything. Only you, have to value YOU. If not accepting of yourself, you will miss soooooooo much….
Everything is not momentous. It is not crucial that everyone understands and appreciates you. If you think they should, you will cause yourself a LOT of grief.
You need to know your own worth and everyone else’s impression won’t seem so necessary. You do not need to have such a vested interest in what someone else thinks or feels or doesn’t think or feel. That is their business, not yours. People have their passing “fancies”. People are allowed to have their errors. They “get” to judge…. You “get” to not react and eventually not care…
You can bake the most delicious cake ever made and some won’t finish their piece of it. So? If someone pushes away the plate of something you made, well, that’s ok…, everyone does not have to value your cooking. It is simply not up to you to decide what someone else ought to think. They get to think their own thoughts, no matter what you think about it.
You value does not depend upon another’s evaluation of you. So, let’s not let someone else’s evaluation of you change you… you get to be YOU….
So go spend the day.. being YOU…. Or at least try to find a few minutes to be ok with you who are…….. Right now, the me… needs to find…….Coffee??