Life Skills

A little how to on how to get balance….

when our thoughts are scattered in several directions at once and we are no longer conscious of what we are doing or why, it is time to center ourselves.  When we center ourselves, we begin by acknowledging that we have become spread too thin and we are not longer unified inside.  Our thoughts might be out of sync with our feelings and our actions may be out of sync with both.  The main signs that we need to center ourselves are scattered thoughts and a feeling of disconnection or numbness as if we are no longer able to take anything in.  In addition, we may feel unfocused and not present in our bodies.  Centering ourselves is a way of coming to terms with all the different energies within us and drawing them back into ourselves.

Centering your self means that you are working from or being aware of the core of your BEing  in the solar plexus area of your body.  At first it may not make sense (I can just see all those burrowed foreheads), but as you progress you will understand what this feels like.  We naturally know how to center ourselves when we take a deep breath, for example, before making a big announcement or doing something big.  Another way to center ourselves is to sit down and engage in taking deep breaths.  We can start by simply getting into a comfortable upright position and noticing as our breath enters and leves our bodies. Our breath flows into our center and out from our center, and this process can serve as a template for all of our interactions in the world.  In conversations, we can take what our friends are saying into the center of our BEings and respond from the center.  Our whole lives mirror this ebb and flow of energy that begins and ends at the center of ourselves.  If we follow this ebb and flow, we are in harmony with the universe, and when we find we are out of harmony, we can always come back into balance by sitting down and observing our breath.

When we sit down to center ourselves we can imagine that we are gathering our straying thoughts and energies back into ourselves, the way a mother duck gathers her babies around her.  We can also visualize ourselves casting a net and pulling all the disparate parts of ourselves back to the center of our BEing; creating a sense of fluid integration.  From this place of centeredness, we begin again, directing ourselves outward in a more intentional way.

So, breath, breath, breath…. done… coffee???

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