Sometimes we start out with the best intentions to think and speak only positive thoughts but the people around us throw us off course. Well, they don’t but our reaction certainly does. Not everyone fully understands the power our thoughts and words have or even if they do, they may be stuck in old patterns of negativity. Much of our habitual communication takes the form of complaining and criticizing and it can be hard to find a way into certain conversations without lapsing into those old habits. We always have the option not to participate in negativity or to find a way to influence the situation in a positive direction. In the right company, you may even be able to directly acknowledge the fact that things have taken a negative turn and then free yourself and others from the negative pull.
Not everyone will respond to your cues and there is no need to become overly attached to the idea of changing other people because people have to choose for themselves how they will be in the world. Many people choose negativity because it is familiar to them and feels safe. It is important to give people the space to find their own way, but you can always set an example subtly representing the power of being positive. At times, you may interject an affirmative statement into the conversation and at other time you may simply change the subject. You may also simply withdraw your energy and presence, which also makes a subtle statement. If you feel comfortable enough with somebody that is always negative, perhaps, you can have an honest conversation with them; after all, awareness is the first step to change.
A powerful way to free yourself from the negative pull is to enlist allies who are similarly minded. You and a friend, coworker, or family member may agree to work together to continually shift the energy in a situation in a positive direction. The power of two people working to promote the positive is exponentially greater than one person working on their own. As you and your allies work together to lift the energy around you, you will be amazed to see how quickly the positive pull begins to draw people into its orbit, freeing one mind after another from negativity into the positive.
I am positive that I want some coffee… join me?