What works for you may not work for someone else. So what makes you think your way is so much better for them?
if you do not accept accountability you will misdiagnose every problem you have. And, if you misdiagnose, you will perhaps mistreat.
If we allow others do do it FOR us, they will end up doing it TO us… hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
…and util we make our unconscious conscious, it will direct our life and we will call it “fate”……